Why Older Women And Younger Men Are A Perfect Match
This is common as young guys are in peak physical condition, and women instinctively look for that in a mate. I’ve been thinking a lot about this. What does it mean to us, as women, to be told that we’re worth less than we used to be? No man I know has ever been told that his powers, his allure, his charm have faded, and that he has to face up to that redundancy.
While that may be true it also might not be (i.e. don’t panic over it unnecessarily). I’ve noticed it just kind of gets assumed that the second women hit 30 they’ll want to start popping out babies immediately, and that’s definitely not generally the case. If it was a friend, I’ll make jokes at his expense, but I really wouldn’t care. Want to bookmark your favourite articles and stories to read or reference later? Start your Independent Premium subscription today.
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I do meet young women fairly regularly as I teach and mentor them and they don’t seem that much different than my daughter. I do not think that there is something philosophically wrong with the age gap in and of itself. A date I recently went on showed the woman to be intelligent, sweet, accomplished, and attractive. We both suspected the age difference might be significant, but avoided the topic for as long as possible. Yet denying reality serves no purpose. I was hoping she was in her late twenties.
Do you think it’s right for a 47 year old man dating a 22 year old girl ?
I also personally believe that there are more quality men than quality women available but that’s just my own view. The few high quality women are usually taken and stay taken as they don’t destroy good relationships thinking they might be able to do better. One man I met online I became great friends with but he doesn’t want romance, being in another country, and another man is very sweet and kind but he has a lot of issues.
The reality is, no man wants a woman in her 50’s except a guy who is basically an incapacitated relic whose wife passed away and needs a caretaker. Women become sexually invisible to men at menopause. Men in their 50’s don’t want them, which is why their husband dumped them for a younger woman in the first place. Fifty-something guys still think they can get a woman in her 30’s, see, and they can if they have money, a house and a good lifestyle to offer, even one in her 20’s. Men in their 60’s still think they can get a chick in her early 40’s as do fit, well-off guys in their 70’s. The sooner you accept it the less soul crushing rejection and heartache you will have to endure searching for something that doesn’t exist.
She is a semi retired nurse and had a shift that started at 8 the next morning. I loved her ‘completely’ when she agreed to go dancing until 2 AM at a Blues club. None of this ‘I have to get home because I need to get up at…’ It was like being 18 again….what counts is the two of us now. We’re both responsible adults but it’ll go a long way to attract a partner by recapturing some of that crazy teenage magic. We ‘re both into a very healthy lifestyle. We hike a couple days a week and usually go dancing on the weekends…2 hours of non stop loud Rock or Salsa .
She never gave him a baby, and it turns out he’d been in contact with her for years while he and I were married. I also supported him through years of school so he could make a good life for us. After all the degrees he attained he felt I was not good enough for him anymore. I don’t think the new wife is either. I found him online a year after he remarried looking for some action on the side.
How many women do you have to approach, before one will say yes to a date? I have never wanted to be single in my life. I always wanted to have a woman in my life.
Hugs, physical touch, someone to touch in the night, it is a very lonely place without the very thing many of us divorced people took for granted. You cannot buy genuine intimacy, that must come from give and take. So yes, I have the career, the stability, the grown children, but I would be at my finest with a friend and lover beside me, a strong man. Since I had these bad experiences I don’t waste time on men. I simply ignore the attention they give me. Since my separation I had many accomplishments at work and i rebuild my social life as a single woman with many friends.
I am also sorry that being female I represent a population of selfish, self centered people. This entire situation when viewed as a whole is very sad and discouraging. You dudes think you are hot stuff, but young women don’t want anything to do with you when they can find a hot man their own age. I do not want to date someone that is younger nor older than myself within a 2 year difference. It really limits the dating pool though. Notice that that you are the only women commenting.
It has been 5 yrs since I’ve been with someone and I really miss the companionship. I spend a good chunk of my life being respondible. However, I really want a relationship in which my partner is foremost my ‘girlfriend’ and she acts that way. But she wants to hold hands, smooch in the movie theatre and never turns some opportunity because ‘its late and I have to get up in the morning’. I dated attractive women a few years either side of my age. I am praying that developing myself and my other healthy relationships will be attractive enough.
In my opinion, this is the decision of both parties in the relationship. If both of you are mature enough to handle any generational gap issues, etc. and you both get along well, then why not. I think someone who is under 25 as https://thedatingpros.com/ a female or male is just not mature enough for someone much older, but it can depend on the maturity level. I guess, but I think it is ultimately rare. It’s too big an age difference for my taste, but not really my business.
Don’t let it rule your lives
The problem is, women refuse to date decent guys. I have a 100% rejection rate from women. I have been fantasizing of having a date with a woman for 20 years now.
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